I help women rewrite "approval-based rules" to make aligned choices for self-confident love lives. Check out my website below and sign up for my newsletter for impactful insights.
Stop asking these 8 questions
|
Hi, Reader, Have you ever gone home after a date and spent hours replaying every word, wondering what they meant, what you did wrong, and whether you’ll ever find love? You’re not alone (and you’re definitely not broken). But here’s the truth: some of the questions you’re asking yourself aren’t helping you get clarity... they’re actually secretly keeping you stuck (ugh, I know). Overthinking can feel productive (like you’re protecting yourself from heartbreak). But more often than not, it just fuels anxiety and puts you in a passive, powerless position in your own love life. That’s why I put together a new article for you: ➡️ 8 Overthinking Questions That May Be Secretly Ruining Your Love Life In this piece, I break down eight common overthinking questions I see in dating and give you empowering swaps that will help you feel confident, clear, and grounded while you date. If you’ve ever struggled with overthinking, spiraling, or feeling like you need to “get it right,” this article is for you. Read it here → 8 Overthinking Questions That May Be Secretly Ruining Your Love Life And while you’re at it, grab my free guide: 12 Rules to Rethink Before Your Next Date. It’s the perfect companion to this article and will help you ditch outdated dating rules that are secretly adding to the overthinking spiral. Here’s to dating with curiosity, not fear. Love, Imani |
Same New Love | Dating & Relationships
I help women rewrite "approval-based rules" to make aligned choices for self-confident love lives. Check out my website below and sign up for my newsletter for impactful insights.
Hey Reader, Fourteen years ago, I walked into a dorm room and accidentally learned a lesson I didn’t know I needed yet. I had no idea what I was doing in dating.I was hurt. I was embarrassed. I was afraid I’d never feel “that kind” of connection again. Fast-forward a few years, a futon, a hard “no,” a lost shoe (long story), and a relationship that grew despite any form of certainty. Here’s what I’ve learned, and what I still believe deeply: Love doesn’t thrive on having it all figured out.It...
Hey Reader, What do you want? Someone who loves you for exactly who you are. And then what do you do? Act nothing like yourself. And then what do you get? Someone who thinks they know you. And then how do you feel? Not great, because they don’t actually know you. And then what do you do? Usually, end the relationship. And then who do you blame? Maybe them, maybe yourself. And then what do you do next?… If this cycle sounds familiar, you’re probably stuck in people-pleasing mode: the sneaky...
Let’s be honest... cause a lot of women are feeling it right now... many men suck.(Not all, but enough to make dating feel like trying to find Wi-Fi in the desert.) Between half-hearted effort, emotional unavailability, and situationships that go nowhere, it’s easy to lose faith in the whole process. But if you do want to keep dating (and, better yet, stop feeling defeated by it), there’s one little thing you can do that’ll save you a ton of emotional energy: 👉 Choose and commit to one of...