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Do men kinda suck right now?... 😬
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Let’s be honest... cause a lot of women are feeling it right now... many men suck. Between half-hearted effort, emotional unavailability, and situationships that go nowhere, it’s easy to lose faith in the whole process. But if you do want to keep dating (and, better yet, stop feeling defeated by it), there’s one little thing you can do that’ll save you a ton of emotional energy: 👉 Choose and commit to one of these four dating mindsets. Because at some point, we all hit a crossroads in love. Maybe you’ve been dating for years with little to show for it. Maybe you’re burned out and secretly wondering if you should just give up. No matter your story, there comes a point when you realize it's not just about the person sitting across from you, but about the mindset you're dating through. You’re making choices (or avoiding them) based on what feels safest, most comfortable, most in control, most familiar, or else. And here’s the truth: every mindset has a cost. But when you consciously pick your approach — instead of stumbling into it — you can actually navigate modern dating without losing your mind. So if you’ve ever muttered, “Ugh, men these days…” under your breath while deleting your apps for the fifth time, this one’s for you. Let’s break down the four main dating mindsets and what you’re really signing up for with each one, so you can stay focused on your goals, accept the reality of modern dating, and still move toward connection on your own terms. Read the article here: 4 Dating Mindsets You'll Have to Choose from If You Think Men Suck. |
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I help women rewrite "approval-based rules" to make aligned choices for self-confident love lives. Check out my website below and sign up for my newsletter for impactful insights.
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