I help women rewrite "approval-based rules" to make aligned choices for self-confident love lives. Check out my website below and sign up for my newsletter for impactful insights.
How to spot emotional availability (Fast)
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Hi Reader, If you’ve ever been on a date, there’s a 99.9% chance you’ve asked a question. Maybe even two or three. 😉 Questions are, of course, a key part of dating. But what you ask matters more than you might think. There are the usual small-talk questions (“What do you do for work?” “Where are you from?”). However, those rarely tell you much about a person’s character or emotional availability. Instead, I want you to try what I call strategic questions: the subtle, revealing ones that give you a true glimpse into someone’s values, self-awareness, and openness to connection. I just wrote a new article breaking this down, including:
👉 Read the full article here: 3 Simple Questions to Weed Out the Fboys on Your Next Date - Same New Love The best part? These questions don’t feel forced or heavy: they actually keep the conversation englightening and engaging while showing you exactly who’s sitting across from you. When you date this way, instead of just collecting cute stories, you'll also be collecting evidence of compatibility. Love, Imani P.S. The right person will love going deeper with you. The wrong one? They’ll reveal themselves quickly: which is actually a win. 🙌 |
Same New Love | Dating & Relationships
I help women rewrite "approval-based rules" to make aligned choices for self-confident love lives. Check out my website below and sign up for my newsletter for impactful insights.
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